"Ndikungodziwa kuti sindikudziwa kalikonse", Socrates adati. Ndipo ndi mawu amenewo sizinangowonetsa zazikulu kudzichepetsa kwa nzeru, komanso zinayikitsa kukayikira. Kukayikira kwakhala komwe ndikupitilizabe kukhala mnzake wa oganiza bwino. Maganizo omasuka komanso osintha zinthu amakayikira. Pokhapokha titatsutsa zikhulupiriro zathu zakuya ndi zomwe tingathe kupitirira zomwe timaziona mopepuka ndikupanga zosiyana ndi zathu.
Tsoka ilo, kukayikira kwamasiku ano nthawi zambiri kumanyozedwa ndikulambira lingaliro limodzi lomwe limadyetsa zowonadi zosasunthika. Komabe, kukumana ndi zovuta zomwe zimakhala ndi zowonadi zenizeni kumangobweretsa zolakwa zazikulu.
Kukayikira koletsedwa: makina opanga zinthu
Kukayikira kuli ndi mbiri yoyipa. Gulu lathu silipereka mphotho kwa iwo omwe amakayika ndikukhala osavuta. Silipira mphotho iwo omwe akufuna kulingalira, khalani ndi nthawi yolingalira ndi kutsutsana ndi zomwe zakhazikitsidwa kuti mumange zowonadi zawo ndi moyo wawo pamaziko awo.
M'malo mwake, perekani mwachangu kwambiri. Yemwe amawombera ndikulitsa mawu olankhulidwa. Iwo omwe amapanga zisankho zokha osaganizira kwambiri chifukwa atitsimikizira kuti chofunikira kwambiri ndikupita patsogolo. Mulimonsemo. Pitani patsogolo, pitirizani patsogolo. Palibe malo okayikira komanso magawano.
Mwanjira imeneyi, molimbikitsidwa ndi mawu ndi mawu - omwe nthawi zambiri amawoneka abwino koma opanda tanthauzo - timathamangira kuweruza osadziwa zomwe zachitika, osatinso zifukwa. Apo kumveketsa bwino amakhala amodzi Kawirikawiri avis tikakhala kuti tikufulumira kupita chitsogolo ndipo kukayika kumawoneka ngati kutaya nthawi.
Chifukwa chake, owerengeka ndi ocheperako omwe akupereka mwayi pakukayikira. Tikakhala pagulu lomwe lakhala makina opangira chowonadi kudzera munzandale koma olondola komanso otalikirana ndi zenizeni, timakhala oweruza osakakamira omwe amakhulupirira kuti ali ndi Choonadi Chachikulu. Omaliza!
Pafupifupi osazindikira, timapewa chilichonse chosiyana. Timanyalanyaza zomwe zimapangitsa kukayikira. Tiloza chala chodzudzula kwa ena popanda nthawi kapena chikhumbo chofufuza zomwe zimayambitsa ndikupeza zovuta. Chiweruzo chalamulo ndichizolowezi chabe, chifukwa sitikusowa umboni wambiri mdziko lapansi womwe umapereka mphotho yayitali chifukwa chongoimitsa pang'ono ndikutengeka ndi mawonekedwe m'malo mofufuza zenizeni.
Koma kuweruza osakayikira ndikusankha osaganizira ndiyo njira yowongoka kwambiri yakukhazikika kwamaganizidwe ndi kuchepa kwamaganizidwe. Moyo watanthauzo umaphatikizapo kukayikira, kubwereza njira zathu, kuganiziranso zomwe tingathe, kuganiziranso zomwe timakhulupirira, ndikusintha malingaliro athu kamodzi, kawiri, kapena pafupipafupi momwe zingafunikire.
Ndikukayika, ndiye ndikupezeka
"Kukayika ndi chiyambi cha nzeru", Aristotle adati. Kuchokera pamafilosofi, kukayikira kumatilola kuti tiwongolere chiweruzo. Zimatithandiza kuyankha m'malo mongoyankha pamikhalidwe. Zimatilimbikitsa kuti tidziyese tokha, koma zimatithandizanso kuti titenge gawo pobwerera kuti tisadzipereke tokha pazokhumba zathuzo.
"Aliyense amene amakayikira amawaganizira ndi kuwaganiziranso, amayeza ndi kuwayeza, amazindikira komanso amasiyanitsa", malinga ndi wafilosofi Óscar de la Borbolla. Kukayika kulipo conditio sine qua non wamalingaliro komanso anzeru kwambiri. Iwo omwe amakayikira amasiya chizolowezi cha moyo watsiku ndi tsiku komanso kutuluka kwa malingaliro opambana kuti asinthe moyo wawo kukhala chosankha chawo. Kukayika, makamaka, ndi chida choopsa chotsutsana ndi kufanana, mankhwala osagwirizana ndi kusamvera bwino komanso njira yabwino kwambiri yothetsera malingaliro amisala.
Kukayikira ndichofunikira kwambiri pakupeza njira zina zowonera ndikumvetsetsa dziko lapansi. Kukayika kumatipangitsa kufunsa zinthu, ngakhale omwe takhala tikungowanyalanyaza. Gwiritsani ntchito kuganiza mozama. Zimatikakamiza kukayikira chilichonse. Zimatilimbikitsa kusakhazikika poyankha koyamba kapena zomwe amatiuza.
Kukayika kumatanthauzanso kuti kulibe tsankho. Ndi mwayi wowona zinthu kuchokera kwina, osati zowona zenizeni kapena zabodza, koma zosiyana komanso zowona zaumwini. Kukayika ndi komwe kumatipangitsa kukayikira ndikufunsa chilichonse kuti timvetsetse zomwe tikukhala, tanthauzo lakanthu.
Kuti tipeze phindu pakukaikira, tikungoyenera kuwonetsetsa kuti sitikukhala munthawi yosadalirika ya inde ndi ayi. Tiyenera kupenda zinthu, koma kenako timayenera kupanga zisankho ndikuchita. Kukayika sikulepheretsa ena, komanso sikutanthauza kuwononga nthawi ngati njira yokhazikitsira mizimu ikutsatiridwa ndikusintha kwachilengedwe.
Kuyimira kufunsira, kuyeza, kulingalira ndi kukayika, musanapange chisankho, pamapeto pake sizimapweteka, zowonadi. Tiyenera kudzilola tokha kuti tidzipereke kukayikira m'malo modzidzimutsa ndi maso otsekeka motsimikiza zomwe zimatisandutsa oweruza anzathu ndi ena. Mwina tiyenera kupita ku Magna Graecia agora kwambiri, koma osati kufunafuna mayankho ndi chowonadi, koma kukayika ndi mafunso, monga mtolankhani Guillermo Altares ananenera.
Pakhomo Ubwino wokayika kuti ukhale ndi moyo watanthauzo idasindikizidwa koyamba mu Pakona ya Psychology.
