Okonda obisalira awiriwo, ogwidwa ndi chilakolako, amadzipatula okha mchimbudzi cha malo ogulitsira ndipo zogonana ndizowopsa kotero kuti amakhalabe "omangirirana" wina ndi mnzake. Pambuyo poyesayesa kuti adzimasule okha, awiriwa alibe chilichonse koma kuyimbira ambulansi ndikupirira manyazi kuti apezeka ali pachiwopsezo chotere.

Ndikusiyana kwakanthawi pandandanda, monga malo omwe zochitikazo zikuchitikira kapena kupulumutsidwa kwamwayi awiriwo, nkhaniyi yakhala ikubwereranso mwamasamba m'manyuzipepala kwazaka zambiri, osati ku Italy kokha. Koma ndi nthano yakumizinda.

VAGINA. Roberta Rossi, pulezidenti wa Italy Federation of Scientific Sexology, anati: "Palibe umboni uliwonse wosonyeza kuti asayansi ali ndi milandu yotereyi." «Ndizowona kuti nyini imadzaza panthawi yamadzimadzi, ndiye kuti, imawazidwa magazi ndi mapangano, koma kumapeto kwa chisangalalo chachikulu chiwalo chimatsitsimuka mphindi zochepa. Misozi imakhalanso turgid ndipo ngati magawo onse atomiki amakula modabwitsa nthawi yomweyo, awiriwo atha kukhala ndi chidwi chokhazikika, koma mulimonsemo zonse zitha kuthetsedwa pakangopita mphindi zochepa popanda zotsatirapo. Mwachidule, ndizokayikitsa kwambiri kuti okonda awiri sangathe "kudzipatula okha" ».

Frederick Kräupl Taylor, del College College of Psychiatrists, amayenera kulingalira chimodzimodzi: zaka makumi angapo zapitazo adasanthula nthano zingapo, zodula nyuzipepala, maumboni, ndikufalitsa mu British Medical Journal malingaliro ake. Izi zikutanthauza kuti palibe zolemba za sayansi zomwe zimatsimikizira kuthekera kwakuti anthu awiri azingokhalira kukwatirana, komanso kuti zomwe zanenedwa ndizongopeka.

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ZAKA ZAPAKATIKATI. Mphekesera mwina yomwe idabadwa poyang'ana nyama zina. Monga agalu, omwe mbolo yawo imakula kuti igwire bwino nthawi yokwatirana ndipo amatha kukhala m'ndende kwa nthawi yayitali pakugonana. Kuphatikiza apo, nthano yabodza ya "kukumbatirana kowopsa" iyi idayamba ku Middle Ages.

Mmodzi mwa oyamba kubweretsanso anali mkulu wa ku France Geoffrey IV de la Tour Landry mwa iye Livre kutsanulira mapangidwe a ses filles, mndandanda wa nkhani zolembedwa m'zaka za zana la khumi ndi chinayi kuti aphunzitse atsikana a nthawiyo momwe angakhalire pamunda wachikondi.

PENIS WOTsekeredwa m'ndende. De la Tour Landry ikufotokoza za okonda awiri omwe adakakamizidwa kwa maola ambiri kukumbatirana kwachinyengo paguwa lansembe, omwe adagwidwa ndi atsogoleri achipembedzo omwe afika pomwepo. Nthano ya okonda omwe adakakamiridwayo idaperekedwa kwa zaka mazana ambiri, kotero kuti dokotala waku Canada William Osler, mu 1884, adawona kufunika kopanga mawu oyenerana ndi zodabwitsazi: mbolo captivus, kwenikweni "mbolo yamndende". Koma samalani: wasayansi, wodziwika kuti ndiwonso wolemba wanzeru komanso woseketsa, adalongosola zodabwitsazi kuti anyoze anzawo.

KUSADALIRA. Chifukwa chiyani nthano yabodza ikupitilizabe kufalikira? Lorenzo Montali, pulofesa wa Social Psychology ku Bicocca University of Milan anati: "Nthano nthawi zambiri imanena zakulangidwa pagulu kwa anthu omwe aphwanya mfundo zamakhalidwe abwino, kapena kukhulupirika m'banja." "Mfundo yoti nkhaniyi imanenedwa ndi madotolo ndi manesi, omwe amaiyimba kuti ndi nthano chabe, imayiyendetsa bwino ndikuwapangitsa omwe amaifalitsa kuganiza kuti itha kukhala yowona". Chifukwa chake ikamatuluka nkhani yotsatirayi, musawope: okonda ali bwino.