Moyo ndi wodabwitsa, Carl Jung adatichenjeza. Zitha kuchoka ku zowawa zakuya mpaka ku chisangalalo chachikulu, kotero tiyenera kukonzekera tokha kukumana ndi nthawi zovuta kwambiri, zomwe zingathe kutiwononga. Ndipo tiyenera kuchita nawo modekha momwe tingathere kuopera kuti angasokoneze zolinga zathu ndi kutipanga ife kugunda pansi mwamalingaliro. Kuti tikhale olimba mtima, tingafunike kusintha maganizo athu ndi kaganizidwe kathu, n’kuika m’malo mwa zizoloŵezi zotha kusintha.
Zimene mukukana zimakugonjerani, zomwe mukuvomera zimasintha
Jung ankaganiza choncho “iye amene saphunzira kalikonse kuchokera ku zowona zosakondweretsa za moyo amaumiriza chidziwitso cha zakuthambo kuzipanganso kaŵirikaŵiri momwe kuli kofunika kuti aphunzire zimene seŵero la zimene zinachitika limaphunzitsa. Chimene mukuchikana chikugonjera; zomwe ukuvomereza zimasintha iwe”.
Zinthu zikavuta, zomwe timachita poyamba zimakhala kukana. Nkosavuta kunyalanyaza tsokalo kusiyana ndi kuloŵa m’maganizo mwanu pambuyo pake. Koma Jung adachenjezanso kuti "Zimene mukukana, zikupitirirabe". Iye ankakhulupirira zimenezo "pamene zochitika zamkati sizidziwika, zimawonekera kunja ngati tsogolo".
Kuvomereza zenizeni, kuyang'ana zomwe zikuchitika, kutenga udindo ndikuvomereza zolakwika ndizofunikira ngati sitikufuna kugwa. kukakamiza kubwereza; i.e. kugwetsanso mwala womwewo. Ngakhale zinthu zitavuta bwanji, tingathe kuzisintha pokhapokha titadziwa bwino tanthauzo lake.
Tiyenera kukumbukira zimenezo “Ngakhale moyo wachimwemwe sungakhalepo popanda mdima pang’ono. Liwu lakuti chimwemwe likanataya tanthauzo lake ngati silinalinganizidwe ndi chisoni. Ndikwabwino kwambiri kutenga zinthu momwe zikubwera, moleza mtima komanso mwachilungamo. " monga Jung adalimbikitsa.
Mu chisokonezo chonse pali cosmos, mu chisokonezo zonse dongosolo lachinsinsi
Nthawi zambiri mavuto samabwera okha, kusatsimikizika ndi chipwirikiti ndi anzawo. Ngati sitikudziwa momwe tingathanirane nawo, nthawi zambiri amabweretsa zowawa zamkati. Jung anaona zimenezo "Kwa ambiri aife, kuphatikiza inenso, chipwirikiti ndichowopsa komanso chopuwala."
Komabe ankaganizanso choncho "Mu chisokonezo chonse pali cosmos, m'mavuto aliwonse dongosolo lachinsinsi". Malingaliro ake a zamaganizo anali ovuta kwambiri. Jung anali wotsimikiza kuti dziko likulamulidwa ndi chipwirikiti chotsimikizika; mwa kuyankhula kwina, ngakhale zowoneka ngati zosayembekezereka ndi zochitika zimatsata machitidwe, ngakhale sitingathe kuziwona poyamba.
N’zoona kuti n’zovuta kuvomereza kuti nthawi zonse sitidzakhala ndi mphamvu zolamulira tsogolo lathu ndiponso kuti mawa sadzakhala ngati mmene zilili masiku ano. Koma tiyenera kuvomereza kuti zosayembekezereka ndi chipwirikiti ndi zinthu zamoyo zokha. Kukana kusatsimikizika kumangowonjezera kupsinjika ndi chisoni.
"Pamene moyo wachiwawa ukuchitika womwe umakana kugwirizana ndi matanthauzo achikhalidwe omwe timawagawira, mphindi yowonongeka imachitika [...] Pokhapokha pamene zothandizira zonse ndi ndodo zathyoledwa ndipo palibe chithandizo chomwe chimatipatsa chiyembekezo chochepa. wa chitetezo, titha kukhala ndi archetype yomwe idabisidwa kuseri kwa chizindikirocho mpaka nthawiyo". analemba Jung.
Zoonadi, ngati tiyang’ana m’mbuyo kuti tione zopinga zimene tagonjetsa, tingayang’ane zimene zinachitika ndi maso osiyanasiyana ndipo ngakhale kupanga zomveka kapena kumvetsa zimene poyamba zinkaoneka ngati zosokoneza ndiponso zosokoneza.
Zinthu zimadalira kwambiri mmene timazionera osati mmene zilili mwa iwo okha
Mwa makalata ambiri omwe Jung analemba, imodzi ndi yosangalatsa kwambiri pamene ikuyankha wodwala yemwe amamufunsa momwe angawoloke mtsinje wa moyo. Katswiri wa zamaganizo anayankha kuti palibe njira yolondola yokhalira ndi moyo, koma kuti timangoyenera kukumana ndi zochitika zomwe tsogolo limatipatsa ife m'njira yabwino kwambiri. “Nsapato imene ikwanirana bwino ndi inzake ndi yothina; palibe njira ya moyo yomwe imagwirizana ndi milandu yonse ", adalemba.
Komabe, linafotokozanso kuti "Zinthu zimatengera momwe timaziwonera osati momwe zilili mwa iwo okha". Jung adatsindika kuchuluka kwa sewero lomwe malingaliro athu amawonjezera kuzinthu zomwe zimawonjezera kupsinjika ndi kusautsika komwe kumabweretsa.
Pachifukwa ichi, pamene tikuyenda m'madzi ovuta a moyo, tiyenera kuyesetsa kuti tisatengeke ndi inertia ya nkhawa ndi tsoka, chifukwa izi zimangowonjezera chiopsezo kuti timalephera kulamulira maganizo athu. M'malo mwake, tiyenera kudzifunsa ngati pali njira yowonjezereka, yomveka kapena yabwino yowonera ndi kuthana ndi zomwe zikuchitika kwa ife.
Kuti tiyambirenso kudzidalira tifunika kuwonjezera kuwala pamithunzi yathu, monga momwe Jung anganenere, choncho tiyenera kusiya kuzindikira mavuto kudzera m'maso mwa mantha athu ndi kusatetezeka kwathu kuti tiyambe kukhala ndi malingaliro abwino komanso oyenerera.
Sindine zomwe zidandichitikira, ndine yemwe ndimasankha kukhala
Tikakumana ndi mavuto, zimakhala zosavuta kutengeka ndi kuyenda. Zinthu zikavuta, zimakhala zovuta kukhala ndi chiyembekezo. Ndipo pamene dziko lipita njira imodzi, zimakhala zovuta kupita njira ina. Koma Jung anatichenjeza kuti tisatengeke, koma tizikumbukira nthawi zonse munthu amene tikufuna kukhala. Iye analemba za izo "Mwayi wa moyo wonse ndi kukhala yemwe inu muli kwenikweni."
Kuti mukhale odekha pamasiku osakhazikika komanso kupanikizika kosatha, ndi bwino kuyang'ana mkati osati kuyang'ana kwambiri phokoso lozungulira ife. Mkati mwathu mumakhala zowonadi, njira ndi mphamvu zathu. Kuyang'ana kunja kwa mayankho kumatha kusokoneza kwambiri.
Monga momwe Jung adalembera m'modzi mwa makalata ake, "Ngati mukufuna kutsatira njira yanu, kumbukirani kuti sizinalembedwe ndipo zimangochitika zokha mukayika phazi limodzi kutsogolo kwa linalo". Ndi zisankho zathu tikakumana ndi zochitika zomwe zimapanga njira.
Titha kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yamdimayo kuti tidziwe kuti ndife ndani komanso zomwe tikufuna kukwaniritsa. Tikhoza kugwiritsa ntchito mavuto ngati njira yodzilimbitsa. Pamapeto pake, ndife zomwe timachita tsiku lililonse, osati zomwe tinkachita kale. Kotero pamapeto tikhoza kunena kuti: "Sindine zomwe zidandichitikira, ndili chomwe ndimasankha kukhala", monga Jung adanena.
Pakhomo Malangizo a Carl Jung oti mukhalebe oyandama m'madzi ovuta m'moyo idasindikizidwa koyamba mu Pakona ya Psychology.
