Noho nui ʻoe me ia a hoʻomaka ʻoe e makemake, akā manaʻo ʻoe i kekahi mea hewa? ʻAʻole paha hiki haʻi i kona mau manaʻo, ʻaʻohe paha maopopo lea, a i ʻole ʻaʻole paha ʻoe makemake iā ia. ʻO kēlā me kēia pane, lanakila ka hoihoi ʻana a pono ʻoe e ʻike! Ua hoʻomākaukau mākou i kahi papa inoa o 5 mau ʻaoʻao e hoʻomaopopo ai hiki ke hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kahi hōʻailona a alakaʻi iā ʻoe ma ke ala kūpono.
Ma mua o ko mākou hoʻomau ʻana i ka heluhelu ʻana, aia kahi wikiō pōkole nāu: e ʻike i ke kumu e ʻumeʻume ai ʻoe i ka poʻe hewa.
1. ʻIke maka
Inā he keikikāne hoihoi ʻo ia iā ʻoe, e nānā nui ʻo ia iā ʻoe. I nā maka a i ʻole i kahi ala hūnā, e nānā ia iā ʻoe. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻāʻo e nānā ʻo ia iā ʻoe aiʻole, inā hilahila ʻo ia, hiki iā ia ke nānā i lalo inā ʻike ʻo ia i kou nānā.
Makemake ʻoe e ʻike he aha ia kona pae hoihoi?
E nānā iā ia i ka maka no kekahi mau kekona, a laila e nānā aku, a hope e nānā hou iā ia.
Makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe:
Inā nānā ʻo ia iā ʻoe a hoʻonui i ka maka maka, e hoihoi.
Inā kona kau ka maka i kou waha, e hoihoi paha.
Se e nānā koke aku, a laila e loaʻa ka hoihoi ma kāu ʻaoʻao.
Inā ʻoe e nānā hema, Huli ke poʻo a nānā i ka ʻākau, he hōʻailona ia o kona hoihoi nui iā ʻoe.
ʻAʻole makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe:
Se haki ka pili maka me 'oe.
Se hoʻomaka ke nānā a puni ka lumi, ʻaʻole ia e hoihoi iā ʻoe.
Nānā:
ai ' hoʻohoka i ka hilahila me ka maʻalahi ʻole o ka poʻe e hōʻalo i ka pili maka a nānā ʻole iā ʻoe. Inā he kāne hilahila ʻo ia, e nānā mau ʻo ia iā ʻoe i nā manawa he nui. E hoʻomanawanui!
Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake iā ia, mālama i ka pili maka hiki ke hōʻoluʻolu ʻole. Uoki ka nānā ʻana iā ia a nānā a puni ka lumi, me he mea lā e ʻimi ana ʻoe i kekahi.
Ke haʻi ʻo ia i kekahi mea a aia ʻoe i loko o kahi hui o nā hoaaloha, maliʻa paha ke nānā nei iā ʻoe no ka mea makemake ʻo ia e ʻike inā ʻoe kekahi ʻakaʻaka ʻoe no kana mea i olelo ai. Hoʻokahi kekona wale nō ke nānā aku, akā makemake ia makemake hana i kahi manaʻo maikaʻi iā ʻoe iho.
2. Ka neʻe ʻana o ke kino
Ke ala i neʻe i kona kino he hōʻailona mau ia. Hiki paha ke ala maikaʻi e ʻike ai inā makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe. Ua ʻike nā loea ʻōlelo kino Nā hana 52 i nā wahine ma o lākou e hōʻike ai i ka hoihoi. He 10 neʻe wale nā kāne.
Mai huikau i nā hana hewa ʻole me nā hōʻailona o ke aloha.
E hana kēia iā ʻoe mālama manawa kahi e hoʻohilahila ai. Hilinaʻi i nā ʻōuli.
Makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe inā:
- Nānā pinepine ʻo ia iā ʻoe. ʻAe, ua ʻōlelo mākou a ʻike mākou.
- Ke hilinaʻi nui nei ʻo ia iā ʻoe. Aia ia i kāu wahi pilikino.
- Inā kū ke alo o kona kino iā ʻoe.
- Nānā ʻoi aku ʻo ia i kona helehelena, mālie ʻo ia a holo i ka lima ma kona lauoho ... Inā hana ʻo ia me ka hikiwawe, hopohopo ʻo ia: makemake ʻo ia e lanakila iā ʻoe.
- Inā noho ʻo ia me ka hohola ʻana o kona mau wāwae a i ʻole kona mau lima ma kona hiʻupuʻu, e hoʻāʻo e hoʻōho iā ʻoe iho.
- Inā makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe, e ʻike ʻoe ʻaʻole ia e huli i kona kua iā ʻoe, hilinaʻi iā ʻoe a nānā nui iā ʻoe.
- Inā hoʻopaʻa ʻo ia i kona poʻohiwi i kona wā a puni ʻoe, e aloha ʻo ia a hoihoi i kāu mea e ʻōlelo ai.
- Inā kuhikuhi ʻo ia i kou poʻohiwi a me ke pelvis i kona wā e noho ana, manaʻo ʻo ia i kekahi mea nāu.
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3. Pili pili kino
He mea nui ka pili kino i kahi pilina e kokoke ana e hoʻomaka. Hele pū kona hoihoi me ke ala e pili ai iā ʻoe a me ke ʻano o ka hana ke hoʻopā ʻoe iā ia.
Makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe:
- Hiki kau i kou lima ke ʻakaʻaka ʻo ia.
- Hiki hamo i kona wāwae i kou.
- Hiki apo iā ʻoe no nā mea liʻiliʻi, ke aloha aku ʻo ia iā ʻoe e laʻa, a i ʻole hōʻike i kona mau manaʻo ʻoiai e haʻi ana iā ʻoe i kahi moʻolelo, a i ʻole ke kumu wale nō "Me he mea lā e pono ʻoe i kahi ʻapo."
I ka manawa like, e noʻonoʻo e hoʻopā iā ia e nānā i kāna mau hopena:
- lawe iā ia i ka forearm
- e hoʻopā i kona ʻāʻī me kou lima
- kau i kou lima ma hope ona ma hope o ka pāhenehene ʻana iā ia
Inā pānaʻi hou aku ʻo ia i kēia mau ʻōuli a ʻaʻole ʻalo iā ʻoe e hoihoi iā ʻoe, inā haʻalele ʻo ia i kona lima paʻa i kou lima, ma kou wāwae me ka hilahila ʻole. Ma kekahi ʻaoʻao, inā luliluli ʻo ia a lawe aku paha i kona lima, ʻaʻole ia e hoihoi.
Inā he kāne hilahila ʻo ia, makaʻu iki paha ʻo ia inā ʻaʻole mākaukau. ʻAʻole ia he manaʻo ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe - nānā ʻo ia i kāna mau hopena ma hope o ka pili kino ʻana.
E makaʻala i nā galants wahaheʻe a i ʻole nā poʻe i "cascamorto" a ʻoluʻolu e hoʻopā i nā wahine āpau. Hōʻoia ia ʻaʻole ia e hana iā ʻoe i ka mea e hana ai i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
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4. Hoʻolohe ʻana
Inā makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe a makaʻu, e hoʻomaka ʻo ia e kamaʻilio e pili ana. ʻO nā kāne pinepine manaʻo lākou i ka pono e hōʻoia i ko lākou kūlana kāne, keu aku inā ʻoe e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kahi kāne ʻē aʻe i kona alo. E ana i kā lākou hoihoi i ka mea āu e ʻōlelo ai. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻaʻohe mea āu e ʻōlelo ai, akā pehea ʻoe e ʻōlelo ai a hāʻawi ʻia iā ʻoe ka nui o ka ʻike e pili ana i kona pae hoihoi iā 'oe.
E hāʻawi iā ia i kahi hele:
- Hilinaʻi iā ia.
- E hawanawana i kekahi mea.
- Hoʻopā i kona poʻohiwi me kou poʻohiwi.
- E hoʻonui i ka mea i manaʻo ʻia, e hoʻopā i kona kua.
- Inā hoʻokokoke ʻo ia a uku aku i ka pili kino a nānā paha iā ʻoe i ka maka, a laila hoihoi ʻo ia.
Inā ʻaʻole hoihoi kahi kāne, e aho e hoʻokuʻu. Nāna ponoi nō e lawe aku iā ʻoe mai kona wahi ponoʻī.
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5. mahalo iā ʻoe
ʻAʻole ʻoe hoʻokahi? He mea 'ole ia, inā hoihoi ʻo ia iā ʻoe, hoʻomaka paha ʻo ia e chivalrous aiʻole e hōʻike i kahi ʻano pale. Hiki ke hoʻomaopopo ʻia kēia mai nā ʻōuli e like me:
- Noho ʻo ia ma kou ʻaoʻao.
- Huki i kona noho kokoke i kou noho.
- Kau ʻo ia i kona lima ma hope o kou noho.
- E waiho i kona lākeke e kau ana ma luna o kou noho.
- Hāʻawi ʻo ia iā ʻoe i kona lākeke inā ʻōlelo ʻoe ua anuanu ʻoe.
Akā e akahele, aia kekahi mau kāne nāna lele lākou me nā wahine ʻē aʻe e kiʻi i kou nānā, e ʻike ai inā lili ʻoe. Eia naʻe, maʻalahi ke ʻike inā i waenakonu o kā lākou lele ʻana, nānā lākou iā ʻoe e ʻike i kāu hana.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke hūnā a kiu iā ia e ʻike inā ke "hoʻokani" nei nō ʻo ia i kou wā kaawale. Inā kū ʻo ia ke nalowale koke ʻoe, e ʻike ʻoe makemake nui ʻo ia iā ʻoe ʻaʻole iā ia.
Inā maopopo iā ʻoe kona hoihoi, akā ʻike ʻoe ʻaʻole ia e lawe i kekahi ʻanuʻu, hana ʻoe ia! E kāohi i ke kūlana: ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka makaʻu a laila minamina ia i ka hihia.
ʻO ka hope makemake mākou e haʻi iā ʻoe, inā ʻoe e hāhai i kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo, ʻike ʻole ʻoe e ʻike i ke kanaka kūpono a e maʻalahi e haʻi inā makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe.
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