Hānau ʻia mākou he poʻe hoʻopaʻa. Hōʻiliʻili mākou i nā mea, nā ʻike, nā manaʻo, nā manaʻoʻiʻo, nā maʻamau. A, ʻoiaʻiʻo, nā pilina. Hoʻokiʻekiʻe ʻia i ka moʻomeheu o "nā mea āpau a me nā mea hou aʻe", manaʻo mākou i ke ola ma ke ʻano he hoʻohui mau. ʻAʻole mākou makemake e holoi. No laila, ʻaʻole paʻakikī ke hoʻopau mākou i ka lawe kaumaha ukana pilihua a i ʻole mākou e huki i nā hōʻike i hala.
ʻO ka mea maʻamau, ʻoi aku ka ikaika o ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana i kahi kanaka a mākou i kaʻana like i nā moeʻuhane a me ke kaumaha ma mua o ka paʻa ʻana iā lākou. ʻOi aku ka maʻalahi o ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana ma mua o ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana, no ka mea, ʻo ka hoʻopau pinepine ʻana i kēia mau pilina e like me ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana i kahi ʻāpana o mākou iho, kahi manaʻo like ʻole a mākou e ʻike hou ai. Akā i kekahi manawa no ka neʻe ʻana i mua, pono ʻoe e ʻae ua nalowale kekahi mau pilina i kā lākou raison d'etre.
ʻO nā pilina pili ʻole e hoʻopōmaikaʻi i ka pau ʻana o ka nawaliwali
ʻAʻohe mea mau, ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi o nā pilina. Akā, ma muli o ke kumu kūʻai ʻana o ke aloha iā mākou, ʻike pinepine ʻia ua pau ka pilina i lilo i kumu o ka ʻeha.
Hiki i nā pilina ke anuanu no nā kumu like ʻole, mai ka hoʻopau ʻana i ka kaʻana like ʻana i nā waiwai, nā makemake, nā manaʻo a me nā papahana, a hiki i ka puka ʻana mai o nā paio a i ʻole no ka lawe ʻana o kēlā me kēia kanaka i kahi ala ʻokoʻa o ke ola.
ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, inā mākou e nānā i hope, ʻike mākou he kakaikahi ka poʻe e mālama i ke kūlana like o ka hilinaʻi a me ka hoʻopili. ʻOiai he ʻeha, he mea maʻamau. Hoʻololi ke ola a hoʻololi mākou me ke ola. Hiki i nā ʻike like ʻole a me nā ʻano like ʻole o ka hana ʻana iā lākou ke alakaʻi iā mākou i nā ala ʻokoʻa.
Hoʻololi mākou me nā makahiki a me ka pōʻino. ʻAʻole like mākou me ko mākou mau makahiki he ʻumi i hala, a i ʻole e like me mākou i ka makahiki i hala. Inā ʻaʻole mākou e hōʻano hou i ko mākou mau manaʻolana a me nā ʻano o ka pilina, e hāʻule paha ka pilina ma lalo o kona kaumaha ponoʻī, e like me ka lau maloʻo i ka hāʻule.
Ke hana ʻia kēlā, ke nalowale ka pilina i hui pū ai, hiki i ka mālama ʻana i ka pilina ke hopena i ka hana ʻino ma mua o ka maikaʻi. No ka pale ʻana i kahi mea nani ma mua, pono mākou e aʻo pani i na poai o ke ola.
ʻO ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana i nā pilina pili ʻole he hōʻike i ke aloha a me ka mahalo
ʻAʻole hiki i ka hala ʻana o nā makahiki ke pale ʻole iā mākou i nā ʻōlelo maikaʻi, ʻoiai ke ʻike mākou ʻaʻohe mea e hoʻi i hope a i ʻole he kuleana koʻikoʻi kēlā kanaka i ko mākou ola.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, i kekahi manawa ʻaʻole mākou pili i ke kanaka, akā i ka manaʻo pili i loaʻa iā mākou, ʻo ia paʻa kūikawā a mākou i hana ai a me nā manaʻo āpau i paʻa i loko o ko mākou mau manaʻo. Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Philosopher Matthew Ratcliffe i kēia ʻano ʻo "ka wahi pili pili."
I ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana, lawe mai kēlā me kēia pilina i kahi ukana pili i ka ʻike like ʻana a me nā manaʻo hauʻoli, mai ka palekana a me ka hilinaʻi a mākou e ʻike ai me kekahi i ka hauʻoli a i ʻole spontaneity. Paʻakikī pinepine mākou e hoʻokaʻawale iā mākou iho mai kēlā wahi pili, no laila hoʻomaka mākou e hoʻokolohua "He hoʻopaʻapaʻa mau ma waena o nā ao ʻelua, kahi i hala e noho mau ai kekahi a me kahi manawa i nele i ka manaʻo a ʻike ʻia kahi mamao loa", e like me ka olelo a Ratcliffe.
Eia naʻe, ʻo ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana i ka manawa kūpono e pale i nā paio mai ka piʻi ʻana a me nā ʻokoʻa mai ka make ʻana i ka pilina. Ke hana ʻia kēia, ke pili mākou i kahi pilina i hala no ka lōʻihi loa, e lilo nā hoʻomanaʻo maikaʻi i mea hōʻino. ʻO ka hauʻoli kaʻana like e lilo i mea hōʻeha ʻeha.
ʻO kēia ke kumu o ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana i nā pilina i hala ʻaʻole ia he hōʻike o ke aloha iā ʻoe iho, akā no ka mahalo kekahi i kekahi a no ka mea a mākou i ʻike ai. Hoʻololi mākou a hoʻololi ko mākou pilina - inā makemake mākou a ʻaʻole paha. ʻAʻohe mea i hewa. Pono mākou e ʻae i kēlā, ʻoiai inā ʻeha, pono e hoʻopau i kahi mea ʻaʻohe mea e hiki mai ana.
Hiki ke waiwai nā hoʻomanaʻo, ʻoiai lākou e noho i ka wā kahiko a ʻaʻole mākou e ola mai ia mau mea. ʻOiai ʻaʻole lākou e koi iā mākou e mālama i nā maʻamau a mākou e ʻike hou ʻole ai a ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻohewa iā mākou e noho i kahi pānaʻi makemake ʻole e hoʻonui ai i ka hauʻoli ma mua o ka hauʻoli.
ʻO ka mea kūpono e hoʻokuʻu i nā pilina i ka manawa kūpono. ʻO kēlā manawa ke ʻike mākou ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke hoʻomau i ka hana maikaʻi no kekahi. ʻAʻole hiki iā mākou ke hoʻomau i ka ulu ʻaoʻao. ʻAʻole mākou he poʻe ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, akā ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi. ʻO kēlā manawa a mākou e ʻike ai ua nalowale ke ʻano o ka pilina a ʻaʻohe manaʻo no ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana, ʻoiai ʻo ka ikaika o kā mākou hoʻāʻo ʻana. ʻO ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana iā ia i kēlā manawa e hoʻopakele iā mākou i nā pilikia he nui a mālama i kahi hoʻomanaʻo makamae, e pale ana i kēlā "wahi pili pili" mai ka haumia loa.
Puna:
Ratcliffe, M. (2021) ʻIke ʻia me ka ʻole o nā ʻano ʻike: kahi haʻawina phenomenological o ka hallucinations kaumaha. Phenomenology and the Cognitive Sciences; 20: 601-616.
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