Menene jarabar jima'i kuma yaya ake magance ta
Bayan badakalar makonnin da suka gabata, Harvey Weinstein yana lalata daga zargin lalata da ake yi a asibitin Meadows a Wickenbug (Arizona) na $ 37 a wata
Guguwar Harvey guda biyu ta buge Amurka cikin ƙanƙanin lokaci. Wacce a Texas ta yi sanadiyyar mutuwar mutane 89 da dala biliyan 70 na asara a ƙarshen watan Agusta. Sauran Hurricane Harvey mai shekaru 65 ne mai shirya fim Harvey Weinstein, wanda ya afka cikin Hollywood yana bayyana lamarin mata da dama wadanda ba zato ba tsammani suka zarge shi da cin zarafin mata, bayan sun karanta labarin 5 ga Oktoba XNUMX da aka rubuta wa New York Times ta Jodi Kantor da Megan Twohey.
Don haka bayan shekaru ashirin daga gaskiyar, 'yan wasan kwaikwayo Ashley Judd e Rose McGowankai ƙarar Weinstein don cin zarafin mata. Fiye da mata 50 sannan suka bi su. Yanzu Harvey Weinstein eh kai ne detoxifying daga zargin jima'i jima'i nella Asibitin Meadows na Wickenbug (Arizona) kan $ 37 a wata.
Ee, saboda jarabar jima'i shi ne - kamar kowane abin maye - wani abu da ba shi da alaƙa da sha'awa, ba ma abin da ya bayyana kansa ta hanyar tursasawa da lalata ba.
A takaice, mai yin jima'i ba lallai ba ne kuma mai tsangwama kuma ba lallai ba ne alade ya zama mai shan jima'i. Akwai tilastawa idan akwai wajibin cutarwa don neman motsa jiki koda sanin sakamakon cutarwa. Mutumin baya jin daɗin kansa (kamar a caca mai tilasta, misali). Ita kuyanga ce ga kanta, kamar magani. Can nymphomania mata da satirism namiji ya fada cikin wannan harka. Wani nau'i na ɗaukaka sha'awar jima'i wanda ke haifar da ci gaba da neman sabbin abokan tarayya (ba tare da jin daɗi ba), amma wanda a zahiri ke taimakawa don magance rikice-rikicen ƙwaƙwalwar ciki. Bala'i ne kuma yana tsoma baki tare da rayuwar yau da kullun. Playan wasa ko kuma "mace mai saukin kai" ba ta da wannan cutar. Jawabin da aka yi musu zai gwammace ya koma ga dabi'un kansa, wanda ilimin halayyar ɗan adam ba ya ɗaukar matsayi.
Jima'i na jima'i zai iya warke. Har ila yau a Italiya. a Cibiyar San Nicola, kusa da Senigallia, inda suka bayyana cewa “hanyoyin da ke haifar da jarabar jima’i, a cikin babban ɓangare, iri ɗaya ne da ke haifar da wasu shaye-shaye, walau abubuwa ne ko kuma caca. Mafi sau da yawa, ana iya neman su a cikin masifar da aka fuskanta a lokacin yarinta ko a cikin rayuwar kwanan nan ta batun, abubuwan da ke haifar da mummunan yanayi na damuwa ko damuwa, waɗanda aka 'biya' su ta hanyar lalata ". Suna kuma warkar da jarabar fatauci Ko kuma ga Siipac na Bolzano, inda suka bayyana cewa “mafi yawancin alamun cutar rashin jima’i shine na mutumin da shekarunsa ba su wuce 30 zuwa 40 ba, galibi suna aure, tare da difloma ko difloma. A kan yawan jaraba da jima'i a cikin Italiya, kimanin mutane miliyan daya da rabishi Kashi 70-80 na maza ne, kashi 20-30 kuma mata ne". A Siipac suna warkarwa kamar 22 na shaye-shaye, ciki har da jarabar Selfie (jarabar "selfie") da kuma jarabar cuta ga rana (tanorexia).
Jarabawar jima'i halin kirki ne wanda ke rikitar da rayuwar yau da kullun wanda ke haifar da matsanancin damuwa cikin iyali, abokai da yanayin aiki. Yana da halin nishaɗi na rashin son gamsuwa da jima'i ba tare da la'akari da sakamakon ko amincin mutum ba. An kiyasta cewa kashi 6 zuwa 8 (miliyan 16-21,5) na yawancin Amurkawa suna lalata da jima'i. Jima'i jima'i ana kwatanta shi da wasu nau'in jaraba. Yana da mahimmanci a san cewa babu shi babu halin da ke bayyana jarabar jima'i, wanda aka san shi da tasirin tasirin tasirin tunanin mutum, ji, lafiyar jikinsa, da kuma ɗabi'unsu na asali da aiki. Jaraba yana ci gaba a hankali a cikin matakai yayin lokacin da mai shan jima'i ya zama mai ƙaura daga abokai, dangi da duniyar gaske. Arshe, sake zagayowar jaraba ya ƙare da mummunan sakamako, kamar su shari'a, kuɗi da / ko wahalar mutum.
Babu wani nau'in magani wanda aka nuna ya fi tasiri fiye da wani. Sau da yawa, ana amfani da hanyar warkewa wajen aiki tare da mutumin da ke da jarabar jima'i. Wasu daga cikin magungunan mahaukata na iya zama masu taimako wajen rage sha'awar jima'i ko kuma rage tunani na kutse. Waɗannan magungunan na iya ba mutum damar yin la'akari da sakamakon kafin yin jima'i ko aiki. Baya ga magani, kusan koyaushe yana ƙunshe da magani na yau da kullun ko shawara.
Dangane da binciken da aka yi kwanan nan, wanda Dr. Franco Avenia, ShugabanJIRGI, jarabar jima'i a Italiya shine 5,8%. A cikin maza shine 10% kuma a cikin mata 2%. NA ana samun mafi girman ƙimar a cikin shekara ta 36 zuwa 50 tare da 6,8%.Ageungiyar shekarun da ke cikin haɗarin jaraba shine wanda ke zuwa daga 18 zuwa 35, tare da matsakaita na 10,8%, wanda ya faɗo zuwa 5-6% daga 35 zuwa sama da 50. Jarabawar jima'i ta fi bayyana a cikin waɗanda ke da ƙananan sakandare difloma difloma (9,9%), kuma ya sauka zuwa 4,7% don masu digiri. A cikinmarasa aure sun fi yawa (8%) kuma musamman a tsakanin waɗanda suka yi aure (23% rabu da bazawara) idan aka kwatanta da guda (7%). Jarabawar jima'i an fi bayyana a Arewa (39%) fiye da Cibiyar (32,5%) ko a Kudu (31,5%)
da dama sanannun mutane - a cikin yankin Harvey Weinstein - sun bayyana - bamu sani ba idan daidai ko kuskure -na kasancewa ko har yanzu kasancewa masu lalata da jima'i. Kanye West, Scott Disick, John Mayer, Lindsay Iohan, Denise Welch, Spencer Matthews, Calum Best, Charlie Sheen, Colin Farrell, Luisa Zissman, Jodie Marsh, David Duchowny (X-Files) da Michael Duglas wanda a 1992 ya kauce daga jarabar jima'i a cikin Saliyo a Tucson. Koyaya, babu wata mace da ta taɓa ba da rahoton tsangwama ta waɗannan halayen, waɗanda aka ba da babban kwarjini da iko na Hollywood. Amma ka sani - babu wanda yake son guguwa kuma Harvey ba banda bane.
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