In quarantine they deal with their own "I".
Who is a virtuous person will come out even stronger and improved, who instead is a subject with a negative and dangerous personality the moment is bringing a deep sense of discomfort accompanied by anguish and helplessness caused by the loss of the predominant power that is systematically perpetrated on their victims. .
It is a destabilizing moment for narcissists as their partner "harem" is forcibly abandoned, fleeting and promiscuous relationships are blocked by force majeure.
His anger is dangerous and constantly grows in this moment and it echoes within the walls of his home that seem to him like the bars of a cage.
The narcissist is used to constantly moving from one partner to another to dispense pain, deceptions, strategies and pleasures through a give and take of sex and strong emotions causing the so-called "emotional dependence" in the victims who form his "harem" that has created over years and years of commitment.
In a very short time he is able to act very quickly and in a compulsive neurotic way to supply himself as much as possible with energy and vital force that he manages to remove from his sources, emotional sources that can be both primary and secondary, the narcissist has a chosen one primary periodical to which he turns his best attention and around the chosen one revolve (in a hidden way of course) many other sources called secondary which are satellite partners from which he receives and from both negative and positive emotions in the form of fleeting encounters made of promiscuous sex or encounters from which to draw any kind of advantage in their favor.
Therefore, having removed this essential freedom to supply oneself with these energies which are the fundamental nourishment to make one's "false if grandiose" live, it means depriving oneself of the modus operandi that is necessary to feed one's self-esteem, a self-esteem that is not actually present in the narcissistic personalities and it is precisely for this reason that narcissists are constantly looking for new partners (victims) that they "use" to supply themselves with vital emotions.
No matter what kind of emotions they are, negative or positive for the narcissist it is the same, because we remember that sociopaths are not able to feel love but they are capable of being very skilled actors.
They know how to simulate love, they know how to do it thanks to years and years of experience and adventures lived and consumed behind their unsuspecting prey.
From an early age they have an abnormal hunger for the strong emotions they need, they are constantly looking for new ones and every time they find one, they squeeze it, impoverish it and devour it in a short time (usually the scientific period tested goes from 18 to 24 months maximum for each relationship) in a greedy and bulimic way, ingesting as much as possible and then throwing up everything with profound and contemptuous denial at the appropriate time, that is, the moment in the vicinity of the systematic and periodic change of partner that occurs punctually only when there is already a new one is ready to replace!
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But beware, i narcissists as already specified in other previous articles, they never definitively abandon their victims but given the period we can safely say that they implement their own isolation system by putting their victims in short, medium or even very long period quarantine, who are considered as real and own objects to be reused in due time.
The reuse takes place with the so-called cu-cu of the narcissist which marks its reappearance in the life of an ex-victim even after many years. This happens systematically and is proven by all those who have dealt with these disturbed personalities.
The prey suddenly during his life and even years later, receives a "deceptively" harmless greeting message on whatsapp or other popping up and there lies the trap of the so-called "return of the narcissist" to which we must be very, very careful implementing self-defense procedures with number blocking and so on.
What does this period of coronavirus bring to the pathological narcissist?
Brings deep insecurity, leads to face his worst nightmares that he manages to escape thanks to the daily and constant implementation of his "typical" narcissistic behaviors that allow him not to think about the aging he is terrified of, moreover, the loss of its beauty gives it an infinite sense of despair, a beauty in danger, a beauty often built by resorting to corrective surgical interventions that usually represent a distinctive sign in the image of narcissists.
Furthermore, the period of him / her leads to think of another hidden and typical terror for the narcissist, namely that of death, which brings him / her back to the primary sufferings that constantly hover in the darkness of one's ego.
The coronavirus is forcibly forcing the narcissist to question himself and forced reflection, in the face of his ancient fears that he is now forced to look into the eyes, fears that for a healthy mind are already difficult to deal with but for a narcissist they are a deep and dangerous existential devastation of all those foundations which since childhood he has built with meticulous attention and which are the foundations of his disturbed personality.
The isolation forces him / her against his will not to be able to take advantage of the fleeting encounters with his primary emotional sources and also with the secondary ones that are indispensable to escape from his anxieties, depressions and load his own existential emptiness which is typical of the narcissist who is he feels perpetually alone and unhappy despite the skilful appearances that he has built up over time as an image of himself.
His self-esteem is null if he fails to feed his natural perversion, if he does not recharge the energy deriving from his actions of domination over the victims, if he fails to carry out his usual tortures essential to have precious energy resources!
Because if the narcissist loses everything that defines him as such, he is deprived of all his evil powers and falls into a great and deep depression, in a fear of the possible possibility of being opposed and faced by his victims who in a moment of quarantine such as this, away from their tortures, it is hoped that for some of them a feeling of awakening in the direction of self-salvation is maturing, a difficult but indispensable path to exploit and which serves to recover one's self and one's strength.
So it is for these reasons that the appearances of the narcissistic vampire will be more and more sparse and sporadic as they will not want to lose precious last energies that in the hope of an imminent end of this forced isolation, they will want to keep to return to sow their power on their sources.
Good for you victims, take the opportunity to save yourself!
For the most fragile and weak victims The danger of a relapse however remains in this period of isolation from covid-19.
Analyzing this difficult moment caused by this pandemic from the point of view of the victims of narcissists, let's say those who are still in the intermediate phase of report with the vampire and who find themselves navigating in the midst of the emotional storm caused by their pathological narcissist, a difficult moment is looming for them in which they are strongly pushed to seek their tormentor as a strong abstinence occurs in them that is commonly mistaken for "love" but which (as explained several times in other previous articles in this column) is only the neural chemical addiction to the lack of suffering caused by sadistic narcissism implemented with meticulous strategy by these little empathic and perverse subjects.
Instead, be strong and adamant towards your good intentions, the victims must believe once in their lives in their abilities and take advantage of this moment away to do and dedicate themselves to meditations and self-analysis by practicing useful exercises that can be easily found on the net below. form of audio and video structured by experts in the sector and which prove to be very useful in being able to strengthen one's self-esteem which is the only antidote to the poison of the narcissistic vampire bite.
Staying awake and lucid is essential in order not to cling to the illusion of a false love, this quarantine is a propitious moment for personal "awakening" for any healthy individual but also a chance to become a better being for those who have been healthy so far had little or nothing.
A miraculous awakening for the victims of pathological narcissism that must bring out in them the desire to finally meet new people, healthy and undisturbed people!
By definitively cutting all possible ties with dangerous personalities who live by sucking vital energy from empathic people and in search of a "true love", a new proactive phase of one's existence will be entered, giving a true and clear vision on the relationship one had with the pathological subject and who is left behind.
This quarantine is a unique moment for everyone to take advantage of in order to change their lives.
These are very difficult moments and you have to be strong to free yourself from any toxic relationship, it is a positive and more unique than rare opportunity to get rid of the energy vampire and its harmful influences, recharge and take stock of the situation.
The published considerations are taken from my personal and professional life experience that has given me the possibility in seven years of being able to study in depth these highly harmful personalities for society.
I specify that I am not a psychologist or a therapist but the close contact with these disturbed individuals has led me to deepen my knowledge on the subject by comparing over the years with professional psychologists and experienced therapists who, I respect and thank for having collaborated in developing the research reported.
By Loris Old
