Bondage accessories, I deeply believe that we all feel the need to fulfill our fantasies about ourselves ...
We all need accessories, clothes and objects that make us feel exactly how we want to feel at that precise moment of the day… and this is not a social concern but only and exclusively a personal pleasure; we do not wear long black gloves and sunglasses to walk in front of the windows because someone looking at us thinks they have a rich woman in front of us, we wear them because that morning we want to feel like Holly in Breakfast at Tiffany's and we don't care if we don't have a cat without a name ...
Now in the same way, for some years now, the use of accessories has been depopulated that certainly stimulate many fantasies and for me it is a bit the same thing, I am talking about bondage accessories, only that these are certainly the hottest fantasies, which have to do with practices absolutely taboo sexual in our society, fantasies of power and submission; I'm talking about straps, chains, laces and collars.
These pieces fall, in fact, in the dress code of bondage, a practice that is based on the consensual impediment of freedom of movement and other senses; but leaving the real practice to the experts and speaking, instead, between those who want to play with the idea of being able to be what they want through the way they dress, I propose this fantasy, a reality in which to feel a little Catwoman but with a whip not quite visible.
They are accessories that leave a lot of room for the imagination, which not everyone is able to recognize and which perhaps also makes it fun to wear them, moreover they have something of punk due to the straps, the leather, the latex and the chains.
Using such accessories does not result in an exaggerated or flashy look in reality; I'll give you an example, for some time now on the wall of Bershka's accessories or between Shein's belts, belts have appeared that extend into suspenders or crosses between bustiers and belts ... well ... what about that is exactly what I'm proposing, l meeting between bondage and pret-à-porter, served and packaged to be more easily manageable for all of us.
However, you can range and want to be more courageous, why not put a bra with straps over a classic t-shirt or over a shirt or even a garter over trousers or short skirts ?!
I admit that finding them is not easy even if now Shein offers a very good choice and with a little patience you will find many bras and harness belts, the important thing is not to be intimidated by the search results ... because it is obvious they will not always match what you want and above all solely aimed at the creation of outfits.
Personally I love the use of these accessories, they are captivating at the right point, they can give us new fantasies about ourselves / s, a different image of us.
In addition, why not exalt a practice considered taboo which, however, actually gives the possibility to demonstrate that there are ways and ways of doing some things, above all there are right ways and wrong ways and the right way is certainly on the path of consent and I as a feminist I declare myself I am happy to be able to support this ideology by putting a bra of straps over a white T-shirt.
How and where to wear them?… Experiment, try… a vinyl leggings with a thigh tie, a transparent t-shirt with a belt on top or a bra with straps, a white shirt with a bustier belt, the possibilities are many and personal.
After all, in some periods the must have was the sock with the lace edge and now it's the latex cat mask in broad daylight ... it's pure evolution ...
And let's always remember that you can be elegant and beautiful even with a whip in your bag.
