You spend a lot of time with him and you begin to like it, but do you feel something wrong? It may not be able to express his feelings, may not be sure yet, or you may not really like it. Whatever the answer, curiosity wins and you have to find out! We have prepared a list of 5 things to note that can give you a clue and get you on the right path.
Before we continue reading, there is a short video for you: find out why you attract the wrong people.
1. Eye contact
If a boy he is interested in you, he will look at you a lot. In the eyes or in a hidden way, it will look at you. You can try to let him look at you or, if he's shy, he can look down if he notices your gaze.
You want to know what it is his level of interest?
Look him in the eye for a few seconds, then look away, and finally look at him again.
He likes you:
If he keeps his eyes on you or increases eye contact, will be interested.
If its eyes are fixed on your mouth, will surely be interested.
Se look away quickly, then there will be interest on your part.
If you look left, Turn the head and look to the right, it will be a sign that he is very interested in you.
He doesn't like you:
Se breaks eye contact with you.
Se starts looking around the room, he won't be interested in you.
Attention:
No confuse shyness with simple disinterest of those who avoid eye contact and pay no attention to you. If he's a shy guy, he'll keep looking at you multiple times. Be patient!
If you don't like him, maintain eye contact it can be uncomfortable. Stop looking at it and look around the room, as if you were looking for someone.
When he tells something and you are in a group of friends, maybe watching you because he wants to see if you too you are smiling for what he said. The gaze lasts only a second, but it means he wants make a good impression on yourself.
2. The movement of the body
The way in which moves his body it is always a sign. It could be the best way to find out if he likes you. Body language experts have found out 52 gestures in women through which they show interest. Men only have 10 movements.
Don't confuse innocent gestures with signs of love.
This will do you save moments which could be embarrassing. Rely on gestures.
He likes you if:
- He looks at you often. Yes, we have already said it and we know it.
- He leans heavily on you. It is present in your personal space.
- If the direction of his body is facing you.
- He is more attentive to his appearance, he is calm and runs a hand through his hair ... If he does it suddenly, he is nervous: he wants to win you over.
- If she sits with her legs spread or her hands on her hips, try to impress yourself.
- If he likes you, you will notice that he will hardly turn his back on you, lean over you and look at you a lot.
- If he tucks his shoulders when he is around you, he will be a romantic and will be interested in what you have to say.
- If he points your shoulders and pelvis when he is sitting, he will definitely feel something for you.
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3. Physical contact
Physical contact is very important in a relationship that is about to begin. His interest goes hand in hand with the way it touches you and the way it reacts when you touch it.
He likes you:
- Could put a hand on yours when he laughs.
- Could rub his leg on yours.
- Could hug you for little things, when he greets you for example, or for show his emotions while telling you a story, or just why "Looks like you need a hug."
At the same time, consider touching him to observe his reactions:
- take him by the forearm
- touch his neck with your hand
- put your hand on his after playing a joke on him
If he reciprocates these gestures and does not avoid you will be interested in you, if he leaves his hand fixed on your arm, on your leg without shame. On the other hand, if he shakes or takes his hand away, he won't be interested.
If he's a shy guy, he might get a little scared if he's not ready. This doesn't mean he doesn't like you - he watches his reactions better after physical contact.
Beware of fake gallants or those who are "cascamorto" and enjoy groping all women. Make sure it doesn't do to you what it does to others.
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4. Listening
If he likes you and is nervous, he will start talking about it. Men often they feel the need to prove their manhood, especially if you are talking about another man in his presence. Measure their interest based on what you say. The truth is that no matter what you say, but how do you say it so that it gives you lots of information about his level of interest to you.
Give it a go:
- Lean on him.
- Whisper something.
- Touch his shoulder with your shoulder.
- To increase the expectation, touch his back.
- If he approaches and reciprocates physical contact or looks you in the eye, then he is interested.
If a man is not interested, better let it go. He himself may take you away from his personal space.
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5. Respect for you
Aren't you single? It does not matter, if he's interested in you, he may start acting chivalrous or to show a protective attitude. This can be understood from gestures such as:
- He sits next to you.
- Pull her chair closer to yours.
- He puts his arm on the back of your chair.
- Leave his jacket hanging on your chair.
- He gives you his jacket if you say you feel cold.
But beware, there are guys who they flirt with other women to get your attention, to see if you're jealous. However, it is easy to find out if in the midst of their flirting, they look at you to see how you react.
You can also hide and spy on him to see if he is still "playing" in your absence. If he stops as soon as you disappear, you'll know he's really interested in you and not her.
If you are sure of his interest, but you see that he does not take any step, you do it! Take control of the situation: better risk and then regret it in case.
Finally we want to tell you, if you follow these tips, you will undoubtedly find the right person and it will be easy to tell if he really likes you.
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