How many people have you slept with? Here's why you should tell your partner

Here we are. You're finally dating the fairest man of the last twenty five years, feel good in and out of bed, you are close enough to have reached the right compromises between individual freedom and life as a couple but there is one thing you have never talked about yet: the number of people you've slept with.

Quiet, in 2015 (and at our age) no one really expects you to be pure as spring water and there is no reason to think that he too has on his shoulders (or below his belt) the experience of a young marmot. But why does this subject still seem to be taboo? Who judges you for your previous experiences probably he's not really going to be by your side.

Sex is a choice, and everyone should feel free to do it - a lot or a little - without fear of what others might think. Isn't your friend who had two men a week last year of college a great person? As well as the one who for ten years has been happily engaged and faithful to the same boy.

Why, then, don't you want to tell your partner about it? And don't appeal to retroactive jealousy: if he reveals to you how many women he has had relationships with before you (one more, one less) not only is it an indication of transparency and trust, but also of the fact that he sex likes and who will almost certainly know how to be a good lover. It seems to me great news, and the same is true in reverse.

There is no reason to keep secrets in the couple, also because sooner or later they could still come out, do you remember the photos of Jennifer Lawrence that were stolen from her iPhone? I wouldn't risk having to explain later ...

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